Allāh the Most High Said: “And your Lord has decreed that you
worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents…”
After Allāh Almighty, there is none who has realised a greater
favour to any person than one’s own parents. His mother bore him
in extreme difficulty and went through great hardship and trouble
while carrying him. Both parents performing their best in raising
him, providing love and compassion and working hard to spend on
him; spending sleepless nights tending to him while ignoring their
own wants and desires.
Islām has gone to great lengths in impressing piety towards parents
and indicating reward and punishment associated to it. A person
with basic common sense understands the rights of the one who
renders favours to him; not recognising such rights is from the most
deprived qualities one can assume. A person who is dutiful and good
to his parents should know that no matter how diligent he is towards
them, he can never repay or thank them for their rights and privileges
granted to them by Allāh.
The renowned and eminent scholar, Ibn al-Jawzī penned this emotive
book upon witnessing disregard and neglect some of the youth in his
time had for their parents and kin, and not regarding it to be a necessary
part of religion. He therefore felt the need to compile a short tract on
these obligations so that the unaware may take heed and reassess the
shortfalls in regards to their own obligations. He arranged it into
seamless chapters touching on divine basis for being dutiful to parents
and enjoining ties of kinship. This English rendering of Ibn al-Jawzī’s
‘Birrul Wālidayn’ will assuredly lead to marked positive realignment
of our own relationships with our parents and families.
And Allāh grants the means and ability to whomsoever He Wills.